Fakhirah Robbani

https://s-media-cache-ak0.pinimg.com A Self Fulfilling Prophecy is a prediction that causes itself to come true due to the simple fact that the prediction was made. This happens because our beliefs influence our actions. For example, if a woman thinks that her husband will leave her for another woman, she will act in ways that will directly or indirectly cause her belief to come true. She might get jealous easily and make a fuss about him being friends with other women. She might pick fights whenever she suspects that he is cheating on her, or she might go through his personal things to look for evidence of cheating. Eventually, her actions will put a strain on their marriage, and her husband just might leave her, causing her prediction to come true. That's why in Islam, we should avoid doing prejudice toward ourselves or to other people. because, after various research our selves tend to fulfil our prejudice. Like  we thought that we don't really a good person, after ...

They who emotionally healthy are those who realize that frustration and comfortableness are part of life (Goldon Alport). Lenka ever said in her song, “Trouble is a friend and the trouble is a foe,”. She was stating that trouble has two faces. It could be negative and at the same time, it indicating positives live events.  Yes, the trouble, frustration, sadness, and bad feelings, are just part of our emotions. We just had to try to receive instead of deny those feelings.  The understanding that life is not always like what we want in may ways will give us some understanding about life acceptance. Islam says this gratefulness as syukur. Syukur is accepting what you are having and what you are not. We will be happier than before by implementing syukur in our life.  Be faithful and happy .