It's simply happiness

I felt so upset and sad.

Few days before UN (National Examination) came, I called up my parents just for telling that once more my math  mark wasn’t grow up. It stay calm at vey limited standart. Hahaa…

Naturally, a drop of water flew from my eyes. That my responses. Feeling so bad through a day. It's not about  math, but about how silly of me.

After that, my parent ask me about the reason of my cry. I answered : Because I feel tired someday just like  today, I felt so tired to try, because the result almost never change. It stuck there.

Then, I cry a lot.

And, Allah blessed me and made enlightening conversation happened between my parent and me, thanks Allah.  Thanks for making my solution came so soon at all. :D

Tereett

This was my conversation :

(Ayah : A, S : Saya)

A : kenapa nangis kk?

S : em, hanya respon naluriah karena rasa sedih dan capek, yah. Rasa kesel dan putus asa juga jadi bumbunya.

A : Kenapa harus sedih? Coba pikir, kk lulus ujian nasional buat apa? Buat masuk perguruan tinggi favorit?  Setelah itu ? Setelah kuliah dan kerja sukses mau apa? Buat bahagia kan? Nah, Kasihan sekali hidup kk jika  begitu. Bahagia  jika ini jika itu.  Seharusnya bahagia itu simple.

S : …

A : Semakin kita dewasa semakin mengerti banyak hal. Lalu, kita sendiri jugalah yang akhirnya tahun demi tahun  menambah syarat untuk menjadi bahagia. Baru bahagia jika syarat itu terpenuhi. Misal : Saya bahagia kalau  punya rumah dan mobil mewah. Kenapa harus rumah dan mobil merah dulu baru bahagia. Kenapa tidak  sekarang saja, sekarang juga. Tanpa syarat apapun. Bahagia itu independen sayang. Pada akhirnya semua usaha  yang kita lakukan, sekolah, bekerja, belajar, berteman, berpasangan tujuan akhirnya adalah kebahagiaan.  Happiness adalah  hidden motif banyak orang. Tujuan akhir banyak orang adalah untuk bahagia. Yang bodoh  berusaha untuk terus belajar agar ia tak dilecehkan lagi, agar ia dapat menggapai mimpi-mimpinya, untuk  bahagia. Bahagia adalah sebuah tujuan akhir. Lalu, kapan kita bahagia? Saat semua tujuan hidup ini tercapai kita  baru berbahagia? Rugi besar itu. Karena saat ini juga kita bisa bahagia. Mau susah mau senang.

Mana yang lebih nikmat?  Dalam keadaan susah atau senang selalu bahagia sambil terus bekerja dan bersyukur,  atau susah maupun senang  tidak bahagia?

S: ---(tambah nangis entah kenapa)

A : Jadilah bahagia sekarang juga.

S : Baiklah, semangat!

 

The key point is so simple for me " Happiness is without stipulation ever, happiness is simply, don’t make it

Complicated,"

Yap, happy is simply. Don’t make it hard to do.

 

Happines is simply feeling, as simple as when we was child we laugh very much because little candy,"-Seka-

 

Finally, I totally agree with these  quotes.

 

"The purpose of our life is to be happy," Dalai lama.

 

"We have our own blessing. By that, we are able to dreams by actualising our blessings." -Citra Natasya.

 

"Don’t ever let someone tell you that you cant do something. You got a dreams, you gotta protect it. When  people cant do something themselves, they are  gonna tell you that you can’t do it. You want something, go get  it. Period" (Pursuit of Happiness).

 

"I believe in pink. I believe that laughing is the best calories burner.  I believe in being strong when everything  seems to be growing wrong. I believe that happy girl are the prettiest girls. I believe that tomorrow is another day  and I believe in miracles."

 

For being happy

1.       Free our heart from hatred

2.       Free your heart from worried, stop  worrying too much.

Worry just make you take something shortly and too suddenly without see another dimention of the  problems.

3.       Live simply and give more.

4.       Expect less, jangan banyak ngarep, kata orang 'the more you expect something, the more pain you should  suffer.

Go out there and make a history, history of a happy person. You are alive and by that you should create a  happy life.

( Citra Natasya, Young on Top)